Friday, March 23, 2012

Yes, I can help but don't take me for granted



A colleague. Not a friend.
I don't want to be her friend coz I dont experience that 'being a friend' feeling when I'm with her.
I don't feel comfortable.
I prefer not to have her presence around.
Officially or project based meetings that need us to be together, well it's another story lah.

I'm not a choosy person when comes to befriending anybody.
But, I have the right not to be with you when I don't feel like being with or near you.

I have no problem with other colleagues.
I have no problem being friend to the kakak cleaner or kakak security.
I have no problem at all.
But I do have problems being friend to people who looks down on other people.
I do have problems too being friend with people who like to use other people for their own convenience and never bother to offer her help in return.

I'm a simple and practical person.
I don't want to make live difficult, as life has not been that easy to me.

I guess it is not wrong for me to decline your request.
I still have the right to choose. To be or not to be with you.

Understand? Period.


2 comments:

Coffee Girl said...

Agree. Professionalism does not require you to be friends with your peers, colleagues or bosses. Some people just cant be trusted with friendship. :-) Sabar sabar mama.

P/s: Eh, your comment encryption is back! haiya

lvynana said...

Understand...I'll stay away from now on..huhu...

Haha, apa kes..Happy Monday.

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